LHG - I had a couple of bro's come back to the cong. after Bethel who seemed jaded by it all too. When I asked one young bro. what it was like he was evasive ... which seemed kinda creepy to me. We had gone to school together and he watched me come into the cong. I considered him a friend and that fact that he wouldn't tell me the truth about Bethel let me know that something was wrong.
Another young bro. went in and came back the same way. His family and I were real close and I could really see the change in him. But his lights were sealed on the whole Bethel deal ... but the 'zeal' he had before he left was gone, gone, gone! The third that I knew of got married before going .. his wife was from a well-to-do, multi-generational jdub family (mother pio. dad elder). He got kicked out & dfd. (must of been reading those dusty old JW pubs, he was very intelligent!) she left and Bethel wanted her to come back - don't know if she did or not. EVERYBODY seemed to come back depressed, maybe disillusioned is more like it.
I never visited ... and it doesn't sound like I missed out on anything. Crazy jdub ex-monster-in-law LOVES Bethel tours. Go figure